He's Just Not That Into Me?!

I am fairly certain that I am a fabulous catch. I mean I'm smart, pretty, hilarious, have soft skin, and I smell good. My friends and family attest to this. As of late, I've begun to realize that maybe not everyone, namely the opposite sex that I am aiming to entice, sees just how great I am; otherwise they'd call!

Alright, alright I know that I am a super modern women with all the above qualities but I admit that I am clouded with self-doubt because a guy didn't call me. I wish that wasn't the case but it is haunting me because I want to know why. Of course, without confronting him about it and making it seem like I am a desperate stalker, I'll never know so my very keen imagination has run wild.

We made out a bit the on our last date (ever, I guess) so could it be that I, Summer DeMilo, am a bad kisser? I've tossed this idea around and I cannot really find an answer. I've certainly never had any complaints beyond my first kiss where my boyfriend told me that I gave him a bit too much tongue but I've improved light years since then so I doubt that is still a problem. Plus, even if my technique was a bit off, I have big, soft lips so wouldn't that more than compensate? I don't think I'll ever need lip liner for god sakes and I've been told more than once that I have 'hot lips'. So, I am generally doubting that bad kissing was the cause of the end of this romance but I'd still like to ask him. Or maybe just kiss a bunch more guys and take a poll?

Maybe it is the fact that he only got kissing (well, full on necking) that left him blue (in the balls most likely). Maybe he thought that 3rd date meant sex and I must be some sort of frigid cow for not wiping my pants off and putting out. I would totally adopt this theory except that he always acted like a gentlemanly type and he never even tried to take things to the next level so it seems unlikely that he was thinking that I was a prude.

Could he have found out that I am dating more than one guy? I mean I have no idea how he would find out this information but this isn't exactly a big city and maybe he heard tell of the other guys. He is on my Facebook afterall; did I have a wall post that was inappropriate from a guy? But we had only been on three dates and so he'd be a pretty sad individual to get jealous when we weren't even serious yet. If he had asked me about it, I would have said that I wouldn't go out with anyone else if he wanted to make this a one-on-one proposition.

Anyhow, these are my thoughts on the matter and as you can see I haven't gotten anywhere to figure out the true cause why he didn't call. Oh, I know he is very busy with work and such so maybe he thinks that two weeks without contact is normal...only I don't really buy it. I mean if you really liked someone would you go two weeks without calling them? No, you wouldn't so why would he? Because he's just not that into me.

He must be insane.